Friday, February 15, 2013

OOTD: Valentine's Day, Take Two

I posted a pic in the Valentine's Day post that wasn't complete...without its partner!




























Blouse: Holding Horses, Anthropologie                          
Headband: Anthropologie                                                                                             Jacket: Forever 21
Leggings: TJ Maxx                                                                      Pants: Black Satin AGs, Anthropologie
Heels: Jessica Simpson                                                                                                     Flats: Madewell          

And there you have it...one blouse, two days, two ways!




Best, 
Lissa xoxo
(Homemade cowl by me!!!)


Thursday, February 14, 2013

Happy Valentine's Day!



Happy Valentine's Day! I hope you're doing something special with your special someone, maybe it's a person, a pet, a friend, or yourself! 

Strictly speaking, I'm not a huge "pusher" of Valentine's Day--every day should be special in a relationship, not just one day. Although...it is nice to receive reminders that you are loved!





I love my husband. :)
(And he took me out to dinner---a complete surprise! I figured we would stay home and watch Downton Abbey in our PJs, but he insisted on going out. It was nice. I dressed up a little bit.)


Valentine's Day OOTD

Wednesday, February 13, 2013

The Lovely Details of Life



When I worked in what I like to refer to as "The Restaurant," I was a trainer, server, bartender, junior manager, and kid's tour coordinator. We worked at a fast pace, with multiple plates spinning in the air, both physically and metaphorically. We did our best to ensure proper presentation; I would always say, in training, "People eat with their eyes, too."

We rush a lot, in everyday life. There's time to slap a sandwich together but not time to make it look nice. If you're the only one to see it and eat it, does it matter what it looks like?

The practical answer is no. But lately, I've been trying to make time to add small details to add some loveliness to that same everyday life. I may usually be in some kind of hurry, but it's okay to take the time to make something a little more aesthetically pleasing, even if it's just using a fun straw, or a Mason jar, or a fun bowl. My husband is a former head chef and he can appreciate this sentiment: whenever he cooks for me, he always does a beautiful presentation:

I'm half Filipino and grew up
 eating a lot of traditional dishes. Kevin made
me some chicken adobo and picked
up lumpia. So thoughtful!
Kevin is FAMOUS for his homemade biscuits & gravy!
Friends BEG for this when they come over!













Take time for the small details, whether it's smelling a flower, putting one in your hair, arranging a plate presentation, putting a pretty pillow on the bed. In the grand scheme of things, these small details may not matter, but consider this: small details do add up to make a life. Take time to make it a lovely one.

I love strawberry water!
One of my blockmates shared this with me. She told me it reminded her of me. I'm flattered and humbled. It does absolutely resonate with me. Enjoy life as you work through it!

In other news, that store that sells a beautiful lifestyle really is just a wonderful place to work. I came in the other day to find all of the associates' lockers decorated with hearts. This was on mine:


It really made me smile to see something so simple, yet so thoughtful! I also saw this:


We were having a sales contest over several weeks and I won the first week. My prize? A $25 Anthro gift card, which I promptly spent and felt thoroughly spoiled. 


A few more lovely details for you before I sign off:

Personal recipe! Blend vanilla ice cream, ice, Amaretto,
vodka (according to taste, it sweetens the vanilla), and hazelnut creamer.
Top with whipped cream and chocolate syrup and enjoy!

Simple arrangement of cookies

Rainbow sherbet palate cleanser. They are served in lemon rinds.
I scooped out the pulp until only the rind remained. I took long straws and
cut them to be small accents, though still serviceable.

I hope you are having a lovely day! Remember, we are all works in progress. <3

Love,
Lissa
xoxoxo

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

[Grad Program Blog] The Teacher as Mediator & Facilitator of Student Learning

Reposted from my science blog, "Mrs. Slay's Science Ways." I felt that the last paragraph merited a repost because...it's how I really feel.

_________

Life is amazing, and a teacher had better prepare himself to be a medium for that amazement.

--Edward Blishen

This week's readings from both Guillaume's K-12 Classroom Teaching and Koch's Science Stories feature advice on instruction and model lessons that spotlight both the teaching theory and the science facts behind the model lessons.

The Koch text features several wonderful examples of teachers stepping out of the way and allowing students to construct their own learning experiences. The teachers are clearly shown as mediators (Mr. Wilson's allowance of Jamie's question regarding the take-home of an icicle) and facilitators (Ms. Koch during the bottle and balloon experiment, Ms. Parker in the "skin" of water experiment).

Experience leads to the understanding of ideas and the capacity to conceptualize.

--John Dewey (paraphrased)

The teachers in Science Stories all respected students' ideas and questions. I especially liked how Mr. Wilson allowed students to re-do an experiment instead of giving them the simple answer. The students were trying to weigh an icicle in a pan to determine if the icicle and the water it would eventually melt into were the same weight. The students were not factoring in the pan as a variable. Instead of suggesting that they weigh the pan and then subtract it from the icicle's weight and the water's weight, he allowed them to problem-solve by themselves, even if it meant extending the lesson throughout the day. As educators, allowing students the intellectual freedom as well as respectful support is absolutely invaluable. If we are in a hurry to rush through a lesson, the students are shortchanged by simply memorizing facts and data but having none of the understanding behind them, exactly as John Dewey said in 1933.

I know that for myself, a theory in print or in lecture means nothing until put into practice. Learning about the science of theatrical lighting in my undergraduate work did not make sense until I was on the road, staring at homemade lighting boxes and dimmer packs and calculating how much (or how little) energy it might take to blow the fuse (and possibly the building's electrical grid). Reading in text that the morning hours are considered "precious" by educators does not make sense until one has taught a roomful of sleepy, lethargic students after lunch.

One of our goals is to help students become autonomous learners--to take charge of their own learning by performing tasks and making meaning of those experiences.

--Janice Koch

Once upon a time, all of American society was focused on creating a workforce to be reckoned with, most particularly during WWII. During and after the Vietnam War, as more and more of the populace pursued an education, students began questioning the theory of a workforce, the theory of war, the theory of government as they experienced what Dewey calls the "grounding" for which those theories and experiences connect. I see a shift in education today as opposed to thirty, twenty, even ten years ago. We may still be educating a potential workforce, but we are educating them to think for themselves. We are asking and teaching students in the constructivist theories of students building their own experiences with teacher as mediator/facilitator. As I synthesize information throughout my educational career and into my Master's program, I can see a trend that defies the "traditional" classroom. We are empowering our students with enriching experiences that will lead to fuller, more educated lives. I do not necessarily believe in a "race to the top" because there is no race when educating children. It is a lifelong, rewarding process, not a race. Too often, society is obsessed with product over process, as proven by rabid attention to test scores, but our children possess brilliant minds and with the right amount of active experiences and autonomy, they will do well.

Friday, February 8, 2013

Photo Shoot!



 This past weekend, I went up to Los Angeles to hang out with my bestie Natalie, who is an accomplished photographer in addition to being a talented actress and singer. She asked me to sit for her and we had fun taking pictures in the hallway of her apartment complex and on location in Malibu.


Red-Orange Dress: Free People
Blue Blouse: Anthropologie
Headband: Anthropologie
Necklaces: Flea markets + Cost Plus
Bracelets: DIY


(First photo shoot that I did not wear foundation to. I did Laura Mercier's tinted moisturizer instead. Far superior and light coverage! Easy!)

I might just have a new commercial headshot! Probably the most accurate representation of what I actually look like. It can be a little aggravating when people don't look like their headshots...










Natalie shot a few "high fashion" looks as well. I thought this one came out rather nice.









She got a few of me on her fire escape, reading my journal. (You may recognize it from the journal-making blog post.)

We shot quite a lot; more to come!

Best,
Lissa xoxoxo

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Your Life as a Scientist

Hi all,

As you may know, I was required to start blogging for a class last semester and then decided to keep up with it, which has led to the "lifestyle" segue of this page. I have just had to start up another blog for my Science Methods course, which you can view at slayscience.blogspot.com. It's supposed to record responses to our weekly readings, but I found myself actually truly responding to the textbook questions that I thought I'd share the post here. You don't need to have read my textbook to read the entry, and I would be interested in knowing if the two reflection questions get you asking yourself about your life as a scientist.

Before you say, "Wait, I'm NOT a scientist! I don't have a lab coat or fancy potions!"

WRONG.

We all are scientists. If you've ever asked the question, "Why?" about the world around you, you're a scientist. Now I'll be quiet and here's the entry:

[Grad Program Blog] "Science Stories"



Text: Science Stories: Science Methods for Elementary and Middle School Teachers (4th Edition) by Janice Koch

Chapter One: An Invitation to Teaching Science

Question: When you were a child, did you wonder about how things in nature worked? Did you ever try to find out by exploring the world around you?

The book Active Experiences for Active Children makes the accurate observation that children of the current generation are more indoors than ever before. When I was a kid, that could not be said about me. My dad would get mad if my sister and I stayed in the house when it was a nice day outside; we had no option but to go and explore the great outdoors.

I wanted to know how everything worked, so much so that when I was seven, I was given an encyclopedia set and an awesome book called 1001 Questions and Answers which covered everything from popular culture to science to history to art. When I couldn't find an answer in books, I was out exploring. In childhood, I lived in military housing where pets were limited to fish, lizards, hamsters, and birds. For some reason, birds were the most commonly escaping pets and my friends and I would find them--dead--all over the various labyrinthine complexes. I was absolutely fascinated by animals and we opened up these dead birds to examine their insides. I clearly remember pointing out the heart in awe.

I plucked clover flowers and mashed them in water to see if I could make my own perfume; I traced constellations in the sky and my dad taught me how to look for satellites. We spent many nights counting them in the night sky. I was obsessed with rocks and whales in the fourth grade, so my parents took me to the Natural History Museum in Balboa Park, which remains one of my favorite museums to this day. I remember dragging my parents to and from various rock displays, excitedly relating information about the displays to what was in my rock collection.

My dad taught me a lot about marine life: how to tell when it was shellfish season and how to catch one (and then put it back), what a riptide was and how and why it could be dangerous, what a 'marine layer' was and why so many San Diego mornings were gloomy, and why there were gold flecks in the sand. I was always asking questions, wanting to know why. I imagine that is how most children feel. It is a large world that needs explaining!

When I was eleven, I went on what the military calls a 'Tiger Cruise': tigers (service personnel kids) join the last leg of a military cruise. On that adventure, I wanted to know why the ship rocked and creaked when it was so solidly made of metal. I wanted to know how a metal ship could stay afloat. I wanted to know why I felt like I was being smashed flat and then stretched very thin as the ship moved back and forth. My dad was then able to explain about buoyancy, volume, and compare his ship (a small destroyer) to larger cruisers (in which the rocking could not be felt, he declared). He took me on a tour of the ship and explained how everything worked and which people made those things work; he also took me to the stern of the ship and explained wind current and its effect on water. I remember this clearly because one day the water was choppy and white-capped, the next it was calm and tinted with lavender.

I've been exploring scientifically all of my life, now that I really think about it, though I'd always just thought about it in terms of being life's student: wanting to know more...and more!

Chapter Two: Locating Your Scientific Self

Question: Why do your personal feelings and attitudes about science matter when you are teaching?

It's unfortunate that this question has to be asked, because that is an indication that attitudes do matter and do impact teaching. If you have negative feelings towards a particular subject, you will find a way to shorten it, shortchange it, maybe even skip it altogether, putting it off for "another day"--a day that may never come.

If one is passionate about science, the teaching and learning experience will reflect that. My professor for my Science Methods course is passionate about it and it shows. I am passionate about teaching theatre and it shows. I have an absolutely joyous time teaching it and it seems as though my students enjoy the experience.

The day flies by when you really enjoy what you are teaching. Some days, I look at the clock and feel like the numbers are crowding against each other in their mad rush to get away. There's never enough time to teach what needs to be taught, so there isn't time for negative attitudes. The students have a need to learn and they don't deserve to be shortchanged just because you don't like science. Our nation has already seen cuts across the board for arts education because it's "dispensable" and now science is being whittled down to maybe once a week, if there's time...you've got to make time. Forget the education race to the top---we owe it to the kids, to ourselves, and to our nation to be as well-rounded and educated as we can be. An educated populace makes smart, wise choices. An educated populace can affect change in the world. If we keep chipping away at the well-rounded education, our children will lose appreciation and wonder for the world around them and lose their innocence along with it.